Evolving our souls when we survive a tragedy. The first question I like to ask myself when I have an emotion that I am not enjoying, is “what can I do about it?” Or “How can I look at this differently?”

From your perspective if you are the one with the diagnosis of BPD, you may feel anxious and worried most of the time imagining the one you love deeply is about to leave you, because you don’t deserve their love, and fear they are cheating on you

Are the holidays making you angry? Does your family let you down, not doing what they should do? When your college age child comes home for winter break, do you want him or her to spend more time with you than they do? 

Personality disorders in general are characterized by long-term behavioral and thinking patterns. These patterns disrupt one's ability to relate to others and processes their own emotions.